Rule #1

OK- let’s get started. Here are the fundamental things to remember about our “Rules”, which will be revealed weekly:
• Each of the “Rules” are ranked as “Always”.
• No matter what the topic is that we discuss in our “Rules”, the underlying theme is communication, which is critical to developing a constructive relationship with your CCP.
• The “Rules” may seem like common sense to many, but it brings you back to the basics, which are sometimes overlooked.
• The "Rules" outline the most important intuitive things that you, as a mother, need to know.

Rule #1 (drumroll, please!)
• Your Child Comes First
Always remember that, above all, your child is your number one priority and concern. It may be tempting to have or hire a CCP out of convenience; someone who may be able to work the exact hours that you need, who is comparatively inexpensive, or who happens to be a great cook as well. But, does she have a good rapport with your child? Does she seem distant? Is she interested in getting on the floor and playing with the kids? If you have doubts about any of these questions, than you are not putting your child first. Make the effort to find the person who best fits the needs of your child. Along these lines, if the garbage has not been taken out, or if clothes are still in the dryer, ask yourself if your child is well cared for, happy, and loved. Your child’s well being and happiness take precedence over anything else.